{"id":11045,"date":"2018-09-16T14:43:20","date_gmt":"2018-09-16T08:58:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pahichan.com\/?p=11045"},"modified":"2018-09-16T14:43:20","modified_gmt":"2018-09-16T08:58:20","slug":"i-am-seeking-help-to-stand-strong-in-my-identity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/i-am-seeking-help-to-stand-strong-in-my-identity\/","title":{"rendered":"I am seeking help to stand strong in my identity"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kathmandu (Pahichan) September 16 &#8211; My name is Shanti Danuwar. I am 20 years old. I&#8217;m the Transgender (Tran&#8217;s man). My home is in Kavrepalanchok district. I was born as a daughter but my soul is the son.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All people took me as a boy and my activities were also like a boy.\u00a0 When I was children, I did not face much embarrassments and discrimination. When I gradually grew up in terms of physical structure and age, I encountered a lot of embarrassments.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I got attracted to a girl. When I crossed 15 years, I started to ask myself, who am I?\u00a0 My question was in terms of gender identity. I know there are many people like me in this world. I started to find about sexual and gender minority and made efforts to know myself.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As I arrived at the age of 17-18, I began to feel my body as like having a prison. There was not any with me confident; it was difficult to talk with others. People started to enquire my parents about my gender identity. Even, people started to laugh saying I was a boy or girl.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My souls were boy but physical appearance was like girl. When I started to live in girls dress and style, I felt bad. And I thought that, instead of dying every day, I decided to change my gender identity.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I told the family. The sisters understood but their father did not understand. But it was happened two months when I started to take first hormone. I&#8217;m very pleased with this hormone change in my body. My voice is deeper. My whiskers were not coming. But not fully supported by the family.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My main problem is money because without money, nothing is possible. I want to find organization which could help me.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>We received this in facebook messenger. We are unable to post original name and photo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Translate By Bhawana Humagain<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kathmandu (Pahichan) September 16 &#8211; My name is Shanti Danuwar. I am 20 years old. I&#8217;m the Transgender (Tran&#8217;s man). My home is in Kavrepalanchok district. I was born as a daughter but my soul is the son.<br \/>\nAll people took me as a boy and my activities were also like a boy.\u00a0 When I was children, I did not face much embarrassments and discrimination. When I gradually grew up in terms of physical structure and age, I encountered a lot of embarrassments.<br \/>\nI got attracted to a girl. When I crossed &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":44,"featured_media":11046,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[20,496,621,492,490],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11045","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-current-issue","category-story","category-news","category-opinion","category-slider"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11045","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/44"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11045"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11045\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11047,"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11045\/revisions\/11047"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11046"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11045"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11045"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11045"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}