Kathmandu (Pahichan) March 7 – I was born in a rural village of Bhojpur district in 2032 BC. I was born in Bhramin family. I was a little bit different since early days. I used to use mother\u2019s cosmetics. I was attracted to the works of mother, and later I used to work with my sister-in-law. I was fun of doing the works assigned to women.\u00a0 I used to wear the clothes of women. I used to learn how to wear sari. When I took a photograph in women\u2019s dress, my father turned fierce and beat me.<\/p>\n
It was one of the immemorial moments of my life. In my life boys were not my friends. Goma Pariyar (name changed) was my closet friend.\u00a0 I was too close with friends (mainly girls) with whom I used to play and eat together. It was very difficult for society to digest such things. I was a son of a rich father.<\/p>\n
There was perception in village that boy should prefer boy as friends. So, people started to backbite. However, it was by fun to use cosmetics, wear red dress, and have a long hair and to do works inside the home. Society was against my will and people have already started to raise voices against me. There was not a proper environment to go school. People used to call me a man of infertility. Father used to beat me for getting attracted to women dress.<\/p>\n
With a purpose of correcting me, there was a talk of marriage. So, I left home in 16 years and there were no one with me. I reached Darjiling. There I met Surendra Das(name changed) and he was like me. His name was Targen and he named me as Jisica. During the night I used to wear girl\u2019s dress and in day time I used to wear the dresses of boy. We lived together me as wife and he as a wife for two years.<\/p>\n
Police arrested use and they sent us to Nepal. I do not know his whereabouts. When I came to Nepal, I was not interested to go their again. I got a job of peon. Later, I came to know that mother is suffering from Lung cancer so I went home. After 12 years, I was promoted to upper level.\u00a0 Mother wept. Mother started to force me to marry.<\/p>\n
To keep mother happy, I was compelled to marry. I married but I have not slept with my wife and I am not interested. Now, I am retired and I have all things but my heart is not happy. As saying that birds of same feature flock together, I want to make friend like. The unfortunate thing of my life is that I cannot disclose my identity. I expectation is that I would get support from you.<\/p>\n
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