{"id":3125,"date":"2014-10-12T11:19:10","date_gmt":"2014-10-12T05:34:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pahichan.com\/?p=3125"},"modified":"2014-10-12T11:21:21","modified_gmt":"2014-10-12T05:36:21","slug":"get-real","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/get-real\/","title":{"rendered":"GET REAL"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Aaditya Rai\/Kathmandu (Pahichan) October 12 &#8211; I\u2019m 21. I knew my identity when I was 20. Had a poor family and background didn\u2019t\u2019 know about the world and had no destination. I was totally free like a bird but suddenly when I had big trauma in my life it changed my life forever.\u00a0 My left hand was burn but never thought I was disabled because I always thought I can do everything likes normal people does. Although my society and friends make me feel different always took their view as my strong point.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">When I was in organization since from my child hood after burning my left hand I know that moment l used to dress up like a girl and dance for others \u2026I even thought kids a dancing and art. \u2026Still I do. I know I was different but others still point me as bad influence.. I helped them whenever they need but can&#8217;t see my good point.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">People have used me like a bubble gum for their desire and always yell at me in fronts of others\u2026being as they were right. I \u00a0hate them and due to them mask my face so they don\u2019t see me around because it&#8217;s so hard to make face to face them but I just can&#8217;t\u2026.Always wanted a loving person in life \u2026 used to thing wish( I had a boyfriend who love me like crazy\u2026.they never liked me and still they do not.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Had little hope one day they see me as good person but now I have left my hope from them\u2026. So after passing S.L.C\u2026I did a research about\u00a0 lgbti (lesbian, gays, bisexual, transgender, etc. and found out\u00a0 there is a society for people like us that gives us a counseling and support us. I even join a gay web page and found out that many people like us are suffered due to they are different than others . Many crimes are done to us but only the suffering is fags and rules are made for us.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">We are isolated from family friends and neighbor\u2019s \u2026.it difficult to stand out against them but \u00a0\u00a0raise a question before you point out others. Get \u00a0ready to know them about them have quriticity so that you can have a reasonable answer?\u00a0\u00a0 \u201cjust feel our pain that we had to suffer\u201d we are human like u all. Just don\u2019t see things as one side, once try to keep yourself as we and analyze it&#8217;s going to be\u00a0\u00a0 a grateful\u2026 \u201cSpeak out because there might be your kids like us who are listening to you\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0Now it\u2019s the time to be open and act for your right and freedom. \u00a0Accepts us. I\u2019m proud to say that our country is the best because they support us and they are acting as one nation.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">In the day of 20th June found my lover boy. We had a lovely nights in my little cute room .I really love him and wish for to get rest of my life with him. We haven\u2019t told or share our identity to our family because we are seen as sin in our past life and scared that they might do anything\u2019s bad to us.\u00a0 I know my biology mom Dianne Budd supports me a lot and I do support her and love her a lot.\u00a0 And now I\u2019m doing well with life working as art teachers in many different schools and going university.\u00a0 It&#8217;s just very busy days \u2026<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u201cBeing as an arts student at university I think people have to see as perspective humans are born with their own identity and gens.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Aaditya Rai\/Kathmandu (Pahichan) October 12 &#8211; I\u2019m 21. I knew my identity when I was 20. Had a poor family and background didn\u2019t\u2019 know about the world and had no destination. I was totally free like a bird but suddenly when I had big trauma in my life it changed my life forever.\u00a0 My left hand was burn but never thought I was disabled because I always thought I can do everything likes normal people does. Although my society and friends make me feel different always took their view as &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":44,"featured_media":3126,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[496],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3125","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-story"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3125","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/44"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3125"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3125\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3129,"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3125\/revisions\/3129"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3126"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3125"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3125"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3125"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}