{"id":6909,"date":"2017-03-29T10:37:31","date_gmt":"2017-03-29T04:52:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pahichan.com\/?p=6909"},"modified":"2017-03-29T10:39:08","modified_gmt":"2017-03-29T04:54:08","slug":"i-have-a-heart-that-can-love-a-transwoman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/i-have-a-heart-that-can-love-a-transwoman\/","title":{"rendered":"I have a heart that can love: A transwoman"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Rukshana Kapali\/Pahichan<\/p>\n

Maybe not what society expects…
\nNot what they say an ideal woman…
\nNot what your friends would say, “Woo, your girl is fabulous, you’re lucky”.
\nNot what you can say, “Hey fellas, she is my girl”
\nNot what your parents’ would say, “Found the lady who can take care of my son for rest of his life”.<\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe we are seterotyped. We are always made to feel that we are inferior, we are worthless girlfriends or un-ideal wife, and just the ones whose ass will be fucked by those who say they admire us.\u00a0There is a \u00a0pervasive idea that trans women are always prostitutes or over-sexual.\u00a0\u00a0What more depressive and degrading feeling, when you realize that there are a lots and lots of men who are attracted to you<\/a>, but among them\u00a0very few men, just like once in a blue moon, exists who will love you? Just most\u00a0of them view you in a sexualized way. The pain that they\u00a0objectify us and over-sexualize us. And the bitterness even if they\u2019re in a true relationship with you, they will not be able to be proudly accepting you in public.\u00a0There is a disgusting culture of men who are attracted to transwomen.<\/p>\n

But I have a heart that can feel \"\"?<\/span><\/span> I have a heart that can love. I have a heart that can care \"\"?<\/span><\/span>\"\"?<\/span><\/span> Just like other women. I feel no difference…<\/p>\n

#Transwomen<\/a>
\n#FeelingsOfTranswomen<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Rukshana Kapali\/Pahichan
\nMaybe not what society expects…
\nNot what they say an ideal woman…
\nNot what your friends would say, “Woo, your girl is fabulous, you’re lucky”.
\nNot what you can say, “Hey fellas, she is my girl”
\nNot what your parents’ would say, “Found the lady who can take care of my son for rest of his life”.
\nMaybe we are seterotyped. We are always made to feel that we are inferior, we are worthless girlfriends or un-ideal wife, and just the ones whose ass will be fucked by those who say they admire …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":44,"featured_media":6910,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[621,492,490],"tags":[458,1134],"class_list":["post-6909","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news","category-opinion","category-slider","tag-transgender","tag-transwoman"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6909","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/44"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6909"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6909\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6913,"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6909\/revisions\/6913"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6910"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6909"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6909"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pahichan.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6909"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}